Wanting vs Ready to Be in Love

So many people want to be in love.  It’s a great place to be when it is healthy and satisfying your requirements, needs, and wants.  Yet so few people are really clear about what these are for them.  If you’ve been in relationships that have ended, and you have allowed yourself time for grieving, letting go, understanding of how you both contributed to the dynamics, and living your life in the present with joy then you are more ready to be in love than with someone who has not.

There is a difference between wanting to be in love and ready to be in love.  Wanting to be in love implies a longing without taking responsibility for what being in love really entails for you and your life.  It’s a desire or a wish for someone else to come in and make your life better, or fill in a void.  Often there is a chasing or settling quality about your experience, and often results in unsatisfactory relationships, and often you rely solely on physical chemistry to guide you.  When you want to be in love, you are not necessarily ready to be in love.

Ready to be in love means that you have taken the time to heal from past experiences.  You have also examined these experiences for understanding and clarity in moving forward to what is right for you.  You have taken responsibility for your life, relationships and how you’ve shown up in them.  You are enjoying your life, clear about who you are, what you want and willing to balance your head and heart in making choices about love.  When you are ready for love, rather than the experience stem from falling or hoping. It is rooted in choice, which in my opinion is far healthier.

Take a moment to look at your motives and actions towards dating, love, and relationships.  Ask yourself the following questions:  Do you want to be in love just for love’s sake?  How will being in love improve or alter your life?  What do you bring to the equation?  Is something missing from your life that you hope being in love will fix? What steps can you take to feel confident that you are ready and willing to be in the love with the perfect person for you?

Tapping to love and so much more

This morning after receiving an email from Nick Ortner of The Tapping Solution I felt compelled to respond to his blog, and want to also share his email tip with you!

EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique, also known as “tapping”  as been a great gift for me personally, and I have finally embraced it and share it professionally.  Recently in the 90Days2Love Singles Retreat, we had a powerful tapping session on the roles we have played in past relationships and the beliefs we had around not finding love or a partner – I will share the things we  tapped on  in a separate post.

My own relationships have improved immensely and so has my health with tapping, and I am now tapping my way through my relationship with money as a business owner – the possibilities are endless!

Here’s what I wrote to Nick,

Nick,

I have so much admiration and respect for you and your sister, Jessica! I was introduced to ‘tapping in 2005, and it kept “showing up” up for me through the years. I would use it, share it a little, and always amazed at the results, then “put it on the shelf.” In 2007 I met Ingrid Dinter, an EFT Coach who worked and trained directly with Gary Craig. I was trained by Ingrid in Level I and II certifications, and started to use it personally to heal from the ending of my second marriage. I was AMAZED at what showed up, and honestly, still am – so much freedom!

I started to share it more, and incorporate it into my coaching practice a little bit, yet still did not completely own this gift. Ingrid introduced me to you via email, and I listened to The Tapping Summit in 2009 and 2010, purchasing the program. I am so grateful for this move and for you providing this FREE opportunity each year. I really listened to, and used the information presented myself and then offered to share with others. I was blown away by the results others experienced and their feedback to me. I realized that I truly do have a gift and finally embraced that. Once I did, people started to come to me for tapping. This has led to more spiritual growth and self inquiry and has helped me redefine and own my truth in my professional life.

In my personal life, I have been able to slowly release the need for medication that has been helping me cope with the nerve pain from lyme disease and fibromyalgia as a result of my tapping. I am not completely there yet, however my improvement in the past year with all my tapping is remarkable. I am so glad we have this gift to share with others, and that you are doing such a remarkable job in making “tapping” and the professionals who use it accessible. I realized that one area in which I have not tapped yet, is my own lack of sharing your emails more. I’ve had overwhelm with technology and I am dealing with each one by one, until I feel confident – and I forget I have the tool – sometimes I can really miss the obvious – LOL!

Thank you for sharing so much with the world, for having the faith to create The Tapping Solution, and for being you! By the way, I am working with a client who is struggling with the very issue that you posted here, and I am thrilled to share this with her until our next session. You truly are a gift!

Smiles,
Cheri Valentine

Want to experience the powerful benefits of tapping, email me at inspired@CheriValentine.com or click here to sign up for information and be kept in the loop of the world of tapping – I’ll be sharing lots of free demonstrations from me and other professionals.

To your joy and love!

Cheri

Singles Social and Presentation

Join Cheri in Hampton, NH as she presents Friday, November 5th – The topics are:

DATING AS RESEARCH & DEVELOPMENT and

5 ATTITUDES THAT WILL ATTRACT YOUR FANTASTIC MATE!

6:30 – 7:00 – refreshments and socialize

7:00 – 8:00 Presentation

8:00 – 8:30 Q & A, wrap up

Sign up here for more details and location:

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Loving Valentine’s Day

Love Bites on The Sisters of Sizzle from February 10, 2010 – Loving Valentine’s Day

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Swap Soiree – Shop to Swap, Ladies ONLY, sorry guys!

Join me and tons of other smart swappers at the Biggest Fashion Event to Hit The Merrimack Valley!

Don’t Miss The Swap Soiree!
Brought to you by:
Susan Kanoff, Fashion Coach www.agreatnewlook.com
&
Monique Johnson, Monx Design House www.monxdh.com

What: women’s clothing & accessory swap

Where: Chester’s, 60 Island Street, Lawrence, MA

When: Thursday November 4, 2010 6:30 p.m.-9:00 p.m.

Order your tickets here: Limited admission so order early! $18.00 General Admission & $25.00 VIP (for early swapping).

* De-clutter your closet & trade in your unwanted clothes & accessories for new pieces!

* Bring your friends for swapping, shopping, socializing and fun!

* Amazing raffles to benefit The YWCA Domestic Violence Programs including a makeover package!

* Visit our fabulous vendor tables & start your holiday shopping early!

* Get complimentary fashion advice from wardrobe stylist Susan Kanoff !

* Seasonal refreshments will be served

I will have a table set up, raffling off tickets to 90 Days 2 Love Singles Retreat for next weekend, and also a certificate for either a personalized individual session, live workshop, or tele-workshop.

Fun, new clothes and accessories, and donate to a great cause!!

For more details, click here.

Attracting Soul Mate Love Meetup

Would you like to socialize with other singles, open your mind and heart to another way of relating with the opposite sex, and form a community of support and collaboration while also growing personally? Who’s coming tonight beside Jenny and me? let’s talk about looking at Dating as Research & Development and have some fun with it!!

If you are ready to change your life, step into your joy, and find love within your own heart, in all your relationships, and especially with that “special some one,” then I hope to see you tonight at 7pm!

Seven Levels Coaching
16 Haverhill street, 3rd Floor
Haverhill, MA

you can reach Cheri at 603.918.8265 to RSVP, Yes for tonight!

TONIGHT’S TOPIC:  Dating as Research & Development

Love Is ALL About YOU!!

It’s your time for love!

Be-ing An Attraction Magnet for LOVE

Cheri Valentine’s “Love Bites” from the Sisters of Sizzle Radio Show February 17, 2010

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Create Your Own ATTRACTION RECIPE for LOVE

Do you want to have fun cooking up your own special recipe for love… and successfully become a master chef in Relating, Dating, & Mating?

4 Step Recipe For Love

BEE-ing A Master Chef of
Relating, Dating, & Mating

Sustaining lasting relationships that are loving, exciting and thriving.

Register Now for this FREE Class
Wednesday, October 6th
12:00noon EST / 11:00 AM CST /10:00am MST/ 9:00am PST

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  • Are you in a relationship now that you would like to have more love in?
  • Coming out of a relationship and need to regroup and realign yourself?
  • Ready to step off the dating merry-go-round?

Whatever your challenges are when it comes to Relating, Dating & Mating – This LIVE FREE CLASS will help you learn how to have fun cooking up your own special recipe for love… and successfully BEE-come a Master Chef in Relating, Dating, & Mating?

Would you like to have a recipe  you could follow to cook up long lasting sustainable love in a healthy relationship with someone who is perfect for you?

YOU CAN! Cheri and Alan will give you the ingredients Wednesday, October 6th

12:00noon EST / 11:00 AM CST /10:00am MST/ 9:00am PST

Just fill in your name and email, hit submit, and immediately receive the Four Step Attraction Recipe For Love e-workbook and get started right away.

  • Clarify what is most important to you.
  • Look at dating in a whole new light
  • Begin to attract more love and intimacy into your life.

WE WANT YOU TO KNOW THIS JOY OF A HEALTHY LOVING PARTNERSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO IS PERFECT FOR YOU

Register Now for this FREE Class

Wednesday, October 6th
12:00pm EST / 10:00am CST/ 9:00am PST

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Attracting Perfect Customers

Attracting Perfect Customers

Attracting Perfect Customers

PERFECT CUSTOMERS

Transforming Your Business into a Powerful Magnet To Attract More Perfect Customers and Employees

Jan Stringer and Alan Hickman

JAN STRINGER and ALAN HICKMAN are the original Attraction Magnets for Perfect Customers and Perfect Mates.  I learned from them.  Through their programs, Strategic Attraction Coaches Academy and Training and Authorized BEE-ing Attraction Wizard Training, I formed the foundation of my coaching and programs, especially 90 Days 2 Love from this platform.

24/7 Virtual Assistant, Staci Jansma

I call her my virtual assistant EXTRADORDINAIRE AND THEN SOME!

Staci Jansma, 24/7 Virtual Assistant and MORE!

If you want somebody on your team, supporting you, making your vision and dreams come to life, then Staci is your GAL!  My business took on a new energy when I joined forces with Staci!  She is more than an assistant – she hears your dream, and helps you create it visually on the internet and so much more!

While working with a virtual assistant, Staci can schedule blog posts, manage WAHMCart shopping cart setup, maintain autoresponder and email messages, website management, search engine optimizing, and squeeze page setup, as well as many other various virtual office administration services.

Seven Levels Coaching

SEVEN LEVELS COACHING

SEVEN LEVELS COACHING Our Mission is to teach you the tools to find and live your truth.

Join us for

  • Yoga Workshops
  • Healing Hours (featuring non-touch healings and EFT, open to all)
  • Student Readings
  • Open Meditation/Yoga Times/
  • Nutrition Coaching and Classes
  • Energy and Chakra Classes
  • Meditation and Healing Classes
  • Massage & Craniosacral Therapy
  • So much more

We are a center available for you – we have many practitioners ready to offer what you need in personal growth and development to help you find and live your truth.  We are located at 16 Haverhill St., 3rd Floor Andover, MA 01910 PH: 617-763-7575

Abundant blessings and peace to you!

EFT Workshop Series – October 2010

EFT Workshop Series

Create Your Joyful Life – focus is on clearing core issues associated with your lower chakras – survival, safety, unresolved grief, sadness, creativity, emotional trauma

Claim Your Healthy Life – focus is on Health – clearing scarring from old injuries, including lyme disease, fibromyalgia, and other diseases,  aid in the healing of current injuries or illness

Manifest Your Abundant Life – focus is on particular issues around money, tribal loyalty and programming, scarcity, lack, dissatisfaction, spending, conflict about it in relationships

Energize Your Love Life – focus is on the issues associated with lack of love in your life, dissatisfaction in your relationships, sex life, finding a partner

Offered LIVE at Seven Levels Coaching 16 Haverhill Street, 3rd Floor, Andover, MA 01810        PH:  617-763-7575  www.sevenlevelscoaching.com

OCTOBER Mondays – October 4th, 11th, 18th, 25th Cost is $175 for series / $47 drop in **

Create Your Joyful Life                            9:30 – 11:00 am

Claim Your Healthy Life                          11:30 – 1:00 pm  ** series only, no drop in

Manifest Your Abundant Life                 7:00 – 8:30 pm

Offered as Tele-Seminar

October 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th Cost is $175 for series / $47 drop in

Manifest Your Abundant Life              12:30 – 2:00 pm EST

Click here to Register

to see other EFT workshops being offered in November and December, click here

Meet Cheri Valentine with The Sisters of Sizzle

Free Audio – Listen Now

Cheri shares her personal journey that lead to creating 90 Days 2 Love Attraction Collaborative, a Relationship Coaching Program that guides you through the process of finding love – Relating, Dating & Mating.

Sisters of Sizzle

Join Cheri as she speaks with the Sisters of Sizzle, Elise Kloter and Jill Pagano, the hosts of “Life on Fire.” With a dash of sass, a sprinkle of humor and a whole lot of realness, the Sisters of Sizzle love connecting you to the people who spark your passion, fan your flame and support you in turning your fizzle into sizzle!