How to Stop Feeling Guilty for Being Successful

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
~  Winston Churchill

“I can’t be more successful than my parents.”

“My parents failed miserably at being an entrepreneur and I’m afraid that I will fail too.”

“I will never be like my parents.”

These statements may not resonate with everyone, yet these are hidden beliefs I see all the time! You carry this energy in your lower chakras, and especially if you were raised with lots of guilt. Often we are not aware of the beliefs that are affecting your level of success and how they are impacting your life. So I am tapping on the theme of guilt again more specifically on your success in today’s episode of #TappyBreak.

A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.

David Brinkley

I invite you to take a quick break — a #TappyBreak — to lay a foundation for your version of success that is un-tethered from negative programming or beliefs.

Success is not a destination, but the road that you’re on. Being successful means that you’re working hard and walking your walk every day. You can only live your dream by working hard towards it. That’s living your dream.

Marlon Wayans

Come tap with me in this video.  Let’s crush the weight of guilt.

P.S.  – video glitch so first four minutes, you see the beautiful Ande Lyons – my wonderful Possibility Partners goddess, but you will still hear me preparing you for tapping….

Even though….I carry guilt around my success … I choose to honor these feelings and love and accept myself, anyway…

About #TappyBreak

“Tap away the layers covering your brilliant soul and let it shine like a diamond!”

Tappy Break was created to addresses the challenges of being an entrepreneur, blast through the blocks that keep you from trusting your inner knowing and moving forward with grace and ease.

Every week I will lead you through a quick 15 minute tapping session addressing such issues as procrastination, writing blocks, overwhelm, control, speaking phobia, family loyalty, money blocks, and many other challenging areas that may be keeping you still.  You have a voice, a mission and a passion.  Don’t let unconscious and limiting stories keep you from sharing it fully and receiving all the abundance that comes with it.

By combining a light tapping on acupressure points while talking, you can move past the emotional and unconscious blocks that are creating your current results. When you tap on an issue often the underlying or unconscious triggers will surface so that you can acknowledge, express and release the charge or the power it has so that you can move into expansion and grow that huge vision you are holding for yourself and the world.

Every Thursday I guide these quick tapping sessions live and you are welcome to join me.  Click here and let me know that you want to be included and you will receive an invitation with the link to join me.  If you can’t show up live, you will be notified when the replay is ready.

Please leave a comment and let me know if this helped you!

Blessings ~

Letting Go of Guilt

“I’ve got a bad case of the 3:00 am guilts – you know, when you lie in bed awake and replay all those things you didn’t do right? Because, as we all know, nothing solves insomnia like a nice warm glass of regret, depression and self-loathing.”
~ DD Barant, Dying Bites

I hope this does not describe you! If it does, this #TappyBreak is for you.

“No work or love will flourish out of guilt, fear, or hollowness of heart, just as no valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now.” ~ Alan Watts

Today we will explore how you experience guilt – where you carry it in your body, how it affects your thoughts, and where it limits your forward motion. Guilt is one of the most destructive and restrictive emotions. It is often undeserved, yet at some level we justify our need to hold this guilt. For many it has been seeded and ingrained from very early childhood from parents, church and school. It’s a difficult thing to shake. Thank goodness there is tapping! You may have decided that you are done with guilt and you have most likely released tons of it. Yet, you will be surprised at how guilt has a way of burrowing deep inside your unconscious and remain hidden. Today we are going to shine the light on those spots.

“Guilt isn’t always a rational thing, Clio realized. Guilt is a weight that will crush you whether you deserve it or not.” Maureen Johnson, Girl at Sea

Tap with me in this video

About #TappyBreak

About TAPPY BREAK

Tap away the layers covering your brilliant soul and let it shine like a diamond!

Tappy Break was created to addresses the challenges of being an entrepreneur, blast through the blocks that keep you from trusting your inner knowing and moving forward with grace and ease.

Every week I will lead you through a quick 15 minute tapping session addressing such issues as procrastination, writing blocks, overwhelm, control, speaking phobia, family loyalty, money blocks, and many other challenging areas that may be keeping you still.  You have a voice, a mission and a passion.  Don’t let unconscious and limiting stories keep you from sharing it fully and receiving all the abundance that comes with it.

By combining a light tapping on acupressure points while talking, you can move past the emotional and unconscious blocks that are creating your current results. When you tap on an issue often the underlying or unconscious triggers will surface so that you can acknowledge, express and release the charge or the power it has so that you can move into expansion and grow that huge vision you are holding for yourself and the world.

Every Thursday I guide these quick tapping sessions live and you are welcome to join me.  Click here and let me know that you want to be included and you will receive an invitation with the link to join me.  If you can’t show up live, you will be notified when the replay is ready.

Please leave a comment and let me know if this helped you!

Blessings ~

 

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